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Toys and Education
By Andrew Bailey

Here are the ground rules for grown-ups. First, don't overload your kids with toys. Too many at once will simply overwhelm them. Second, don't take away old favorites - even if doggy, teddy, or dolly has been loved to bits. And third: suggested age ranges aren't set in stone. Be patient if a child can't yet cope with some particular game. She'll soon get the knack.

As a natural, ongoing part of our work as parents, teachers, early childhood specialists and others involved with children at home or elsewhere, we observe children at play. This includes selecting the right products to enhance play and learning.

We can depend on the durability and versatility of such items as blocks, construction toys, games, puppets, and transportation toys. They stimulate the imagination, engage the player, have value, and hold up over time.

What some parents conclude after watching their gifted children at play can be very far from the reality of the situation. Some parents believe that their child isn't being social when she doesn't play with the other children. In fact, the issue might not be with the playmates; rather, it might be the choice of games, because gifted children learn and grow from play. Of course there are important social issues for gifted children that parents need to consider; however, since the gifted child can process at a higher level, he or she might gravitate to older children or to other children who have the same interests and abilities rather than to the boys and girls of the same age.

Children are little sponges when it comes to learning, and they are perfectly capable of doing that without toys that are described specifically as educational toys. Children's toys are supposed to be fun, and most educational toys that children love will combine learning with having a great time.

The old classic children's toys like Lego or Playdoh are great for stimulating child development and creative tendencies. Young children can start with the basic sets that don't come with any complicated extras and work their way up.

Children's educational toys are an essential component to every child's playroom. Life would be much easier if we could just accept the fact that kids have always, and will always, spend most their time playing with toys. In the last few years, parents started getting more and more interested in choosing all sorts of educational toys for their children.

Playing with educational toys is one of the means that help children to establish contact with the world they live in, especially during the infancy stage. During the infancy stage, toys serve as educational materials to stimulate the child's sense of sight, hearing, and touch. A rule of buying educational toys is to keep in touch with the child's interests.

Once your kid has graduated infancy, the learning process becomes a little more complex. A year ago, they were learning how to eat solid food by chewing on a pillow. They were learning what would eventually allow them to read by staring at the mobile above their crib going around and around. Now it's time to start thinking about reading, mathematics, basic building, and organizational skills, further social development... the list goes on.

The wrong way to go about teaching these skills, and certainly you know one or two parents like this, is to treat the educative process too much like... well, academics. You don't want to turn learning into something boring, with worksheets and assignments and so on. Learning should be fun, and if you teach that at a young age, it will remain with your child through their whole life.

But how does a parent know how much is too much to give? The dilemma is persistent though perilous when parenting pre-teen and teenage daughters when stuff and idols have their most tenacious grip.

What could be more innocent, more harmless than toys? If we were the toymakers, our products would no doubt reflect our love for children.

Do children need toys? I would answer yes. Less affluent children have, for centuries, created their own: a piece of wood wrapped in a scrap of cloth became a doll; other bits of wood became animals, houses, tools, or weapons. Children seem to need to play almost as much as they need food, shelter, and love. Toys are the necessary props.

Empowering Children with Low Self Esteem
By Kaley Herrick

Self-esteem is a key ingredient in maximizing children's potential.

We all want to protect our children. Fundamentally, the child's own inner beliefs and self-esteem is the only thing that can act like armor and create a shield to protect them from the challenges the world has to throw at them. For a child to reach their full potential: self-esteem is the primary and most crucial tool.

Children with low self-esteem may not want to try new things, and may speak negatively about themselves; they may be overly critical, lack confidence and miss out on the fun and learning that other children benefit from.

Patterns of self-esteem start very early in life. Learning new skills and gaining belief in their potential are great ways to improve self-esteem in children.

To overcome self-esteem issues and lack of confidence we need to identify and redirect the child's inaccurate beliefs. Self-esteem is all about the way you judge yourself. Inaccurate beliefs are created by other inflicting methods surrounding children, i.e. other adults, other children, television, magazines, or many other reflective methods. They don't need to be the best at everything but instead appreciate their own abilities, enjoy their imagination and strive to promote their own specialties. It is also important to discover others self worth's and becoming respectfully aware of others. To not only understand their own specialties but to seek and understanding the positives and strengths in everyone.The practice of imagining themselves in other's situation is very important for developing compassion, empathy, and understanding others fully, by discouraging flawed beliefs and offering inspiration for positive healthy ways of thinking.

A child needs affection and love. Without this, it is inevitable that a low self-esteem will occur. Teach children to love themselves. Positive feedback is always craved by children and is important in their learning.

A happy living environment is essential in areas of personal confidence and personal valuation. If a child has been constantly criticized, bullied or ignored during early childhood they will have much less child self-esteem than children who are praised, encouraged, listened to and valued. Often it is the case that a child hasn't had or cannot respond to the praise or encouragement from a parent or teacher alone. This means that it is important that every child has the confidence within themselves to appreciate their own self worth and specialties. Another aspect to think of is that if a child is experiencing a troubled time they may need an embracive distraction.

Children with unhealthy self-esteem tend to fear interacting with others. They're uncomfortable in social settings and hate group activities as well as independent pursuits. When challenges arise, they feel negative toward finding solutions and belittle themselves. Children with low self-esteem are afraid to say, "I don't understand this." And therefore do not learn and develop as the others do. They don't know their strengths and focus on their weaknesses. Give a sense of optimism. Children can benefit from the participation activities and make friends through the interaction. Encourage them to have fun, be creative, and play imaginatively in order to explore the themes. In small groups, the children can concentrate on the issues and communicate openly in discussions. This will enable the individuals within the groups to challenge and understand their own and others fear and problems. They will learn to inspire themselves and others to explore passions and dreams.

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